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Charlee Bassillo
Brick, New Jersey USA
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Advice to Charlee Bassillo Addressing Ages 14, 15 & 16, Re: Love & Hurting
1. The boy that made you write your phone number in his novel before English class in December of 2003 is the boy you're going to fall in love with by the time you're sixteen. Don't hesitate, hold back your feelings, or think he doesn't like you as much as you like him.
2. Don't make assumptions because they're only hurting you. Making an assumption about his feelings will only lead to him making a similar assumption about yours.
3. When Valentine's Day, your birthday, comes around in 2004, do what Lauren says and kiss him out of the blue. It probably will launch you into a relationship more quickly, and lessen the waiting until March to actually kiss him the first time.
4. When Marc asks you out in May, don't say, "yes." Don't invite him over after prom because Chad will still come by, and it'll make him feel awkward. If you just let it be you and Chad and Doug and Lauren, you might get something accomplished.
5. Stay at Austin's house overnight with Chad in the garage. He likes you a lot at this point. Make it work.
6. When you start dating June 1st of 2004, don't think he's "seeing you" and other people as well, or he doesn't want his friends to know you're dating him. Get under his arm and act like he's all yours. Holding back is driving him away.
7. After you two get back together in 2005, don't assume he doesn't care much about you. It's not just hooking up like it was in October. Start a conversation about getting together officially. You won't regret it.
8. When you drive to Atlantic City and Philadelphia that night with him, don't let him speed. He's going to get in trouble for it. Big trouble. It's going to ruin his life and highly impact yours.
9. Don't try to counteract weight gain after you've done so good undoing your anorexia. It will only make you gain more weight.
10. Start the gym before you go to Cozumel. You will be happier. You won't feel like you have to have starved yourself for so long to get rid of your tummy if you have muscles.
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